He said: “It pisses me off when you tell me that you will be back around a certain time and you get here three hours later.”
She heard: “I don’t want you to go out with your friends.”
He said: “You could’ve called to let me know you were coming back later.”
She heard: “You need to tell me exactly what you did with those people because I don’t trust you.”
Of course it went downhill from there.
She has every right to be mad that someone would prevent her from going out with her friends, and ask for a play-by-play of her activities.
But he’s not that someone. He says what he means, and he means what he says. He has a perfect track record at that.
So he’s still pissed.
And she still thinks he doesn’t want her to go out with her friends.